I didn’t realize it was her that called until she emailed me. She even called my home phone and when I went to answer, the person on the other end, hung up. She wants to take me out to lunch next week. I really don’t know how to handle the situation. Should I even reply? So far I’ve been ignoring all former contact from ward members, which has only been her and the RS President. Both have even wrote me letters, without suggesting they know I’ve left the church. I want to ignore her, but I’m afraid she’ll just show up on my doorstep. If she comes when hubby is sleeping, he’ll be really upset. I’ll be upset that she came over period. Anyway, I wrote to my email group for Mormons In Transition, for advice on how to handle the situation. I really don’t owe her anything, though. I would just think that by now, the Bishop would have told them about me leaving.